How do I know...

How do you know when to call it quits? There's never a flashing sign in bright neon saying "let go". There is however warning know the lesser glowing sings that may say it's time to pack up and leave. No one wants to admit their relationship has failed, but sometimes you have to at least admit it to yourself. Everyone has a breaking point, most people are willing to look past or give multiple chances just to make it work, but how do you know when enough is enough? How far do you have to be pushed before you realize you deserve better? It has come to the point that being treated like $h!t isn't doing it for you anymore. I am a big believer that if you truly love someone you are willing to look past the bad, almost to a point where you're blinded by love altogether. People want to be with people, it's human nature, but being with someone or being with the right someone are two totally different things. You can't continue to do everything for someone while they sit back and reap the benefits. There has to be compromising if it's ever going to work. People get comfortable in a relationship and forgot what it truly means to be "together". It's give and take, some days are great and some days aren't, but that's okay because love balances it out. If there is one piece of advice I can give from experience, it's don't settle for less than you deserve, you deserve the world! Don't stop looking until you find someone who is willing to give to you what you give to them.

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